My Sister just found out that she is pregnet and she is only 17 and is living with her Fiance,they have been together for not even a year.(they got engaged befor she found out she was pregnet)
And they are living in a trailer with his parents,and everybody is so happy about it,but I dont know she is only 17 years old,she has already graduated but her and her fiance dont have jobs,and live in a trashy trailer.They where going to move in with me and my dad in Florida before she found out she was pregnet,(they live in seattle.)and She use to drink and do Some drugs and stuff.Anyways for some reason I dont know how to feel about her being pregnet and living in a trashy trailer with her and the baby and her fiance and his mom.Should I feel happy or sad?I feel upset because I dont think that she should have a baby living the way she is,I think she should move in with my dad and I but I dont know.She is only 17 and its like she threw everything away.So anyways am I wrong for feeling mad that she is not gonna be moving in with us and staying in trailer?When I talked to her today I lead her to think that I was happy for her,but really I want her to have the baby and keep her/him,(I hate aboritions)But I dont think she should be living where she is now when the baby comes.I dont know am I wrong for being mad at her for not moving to a better place when the baby comes?(and both of them (her and her fiance)were gonna move in with us..


I think you should be happy for your sister, and just look out for her. she will need you as time progresses. yes 17 is young but hey could be worse she could be 15 with no idea what is happening or the fact that she doesn’t know what kind of maturity level she will be needing to care for a child. but hey to each there own. at least there is always the idea of adoption.
If you think the marriage will last (forever) and he will be a good dad supporting the child and the mother be happy.
If you think that she will get divorced and shes going to deal with the baby alone for a while let your sister deal with it. It was her mistake.
Its not you. It is your sister. Be happy for her. Be there for her. And whatever you do don’t open your mouth. It might sound mean but she is hormonal and anything you say will hurt her.
Best of luck to her
…i just turned 15 and im pretty sure im pregnant.. no age is to young.. just their maturity.. its all her decision not yours. im not triying to make u feel bad or anything im just saying.. thats how i feel about it.